Single Women of Faith
Tired of Being Alone & Ready to Be a Wife?
Roadmap to Marriage Retreat
4 Day, 3 Night Exclusive Island Experience
St. Thomas, USVI
April 11-14, 2026
Personalized Roadmap
Single women of faith, 40+, join former 49-year-old virgin turned preacher’s wife of 15 years, International Speaker, Educator, Author and Certified Christian Life Coach, Dr. Paula C. Perez, for this four day, three night exclusive luxury Caribbean Island Retreat where you will work on your personalized roadmap for marriage, and leave with the tools to attract, date, and marry a godly man, even if you have not dated in years.
Hosts Pastor John & Dr. Paula C. Perez
This is an exclusive immersive experience for select women. Don’t delay. Click the button and apply today.
Customized Training
It’s not just a beautiful site, it’s your way to forever love, marriage & honeymoon in
St. Thomas, USVI!
Your host, Best Selling Author, Speaker and Certified Christian Life Coach, Dr. Paula C. Perez at the Villa in St. Thomas, U.S. Virgin Islands
Your investment in your
Personalized Roadmap to Love and Marriage Includes …
- Wisdom and Guidance: Each morning, Dr. Paula C. Perez will guide you in a deep dive on the biblical principles and practical skills required to attract, date, and marry your future husband.
- "Ask Pastor John: Women Want to Know..." - an opportunity to get a man's perspective on dating, love, and marriage
- Immersive Experiences: Individual coaching, exercises and group activities will allow you to reflect on, practice, and incorporate the tools as you behold God’s handiwork in nature.
- Sister Circle: Each evening, Dr. Paula C. Perez will lead the group in a time of prayer, praise, and worship focused on increasing your faith and trust in God's timing and plan for your future marriage.
- Dressed for Destiny (All White Attire): This special event is curated as an evening of celebration as you prepare to leave the island armed with your personal roadmap to the future you imagine for yourself.
- Luxurious Accommodations: We chose this serene space with you in mind. It’s the perfect spot to step away from the noise and get your personalized roadmap to love and marriage, and one day return for your honeymoon!
- Meals: The retreat experience continues as we commune over food.
- Swag Bag (Bonus): You'll receive additional resources and items to remind you that you belong to God and you are worthy of love as you step into your role of "wife".
- Group Coaching Support: After you leave the retreat, Dr. Paula will provide 3 additional months of group coaching support to keep you in momentum towards your dream life.
Price
$9,997
(Applications reviewed in the order received.)
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Personalized Assignments
One-on-OneTime
Hosted by Dr. Paula C. Perez
Private Q&A sessions with the host will help you chart your personalized roadmap to love and marriage.
Pictures from Past Retreats
Group Sessions
Dressed for Destiny
Led by Expert
Sisterhood
Your Personal Guide
Meal Time
Sister Circle
Luxurious Accommodations
King #1
Master Suite with master bath and fabulous views of the islands
King #2
Poolside Access
King #3
Includes Outside Deck
Shared Room
The shared room contains a full bed and three (3) single beds.
Shared Room #4
Group Meeting Space
Your Love Transformation Awaits
Dr. Paula C. Perez
Your Host for the Week
Award-winning author, certified Christian Life coach, international speaker, Ed.D., B.S., M.S., CAS, SDA, NBCT, SYMBIS, and former 49-year-old virgin turned pastor’s wife, Dr. Paula C. Perez helps single Christian women get the tools to attract, date, and marry a man aligned to their faith and values resulting in lasting godly marriages, using her simple 4-STEP faith-based relationship framework.
Her memoir, Delayed Not Denied: How I Became My Best on My Journey to Love and Marriage, provides a message of hope and encouragement for readers, especially women who are older than 40. Her expertise has been featured on ABC, NBC, CBS, CW, KingdomTV, International media, YouVersion, many podcasts, and radio broadcasts.
Dr. Paula lives with her husband, Pastor John E. Perez, in the Hudson Valley in New York State. She works along side him at Family Transformation (FT) Global Ministries.
Roadmap to Marriage Retreat
Roadmap to Marriage Retreat
Still Have Questions? We GOT YOU!
Frequently Asked Questions
Yes. There will be a cook on site.
Note: There are also two restaurants on the premises. However, this is not included. NOTE: Your decision to go to a restaurant is an additional costs on you.
Yes. You must arrange your flight to U.S. Virgin Islands. NO PASSPORT required. You only need a REAL ID. The retreat cost does not include your flight.
Fly to the Cyril E. King Airport in St. Thomas, U.S. Virgin Islands. Please arrive by 5 PM. Plan your return for after 12:30 PM. Once you make your flight arrangements, please email us at info@roadmaptomarriage.com. If you purchase Enhanced VIP (additional $1997 for 3 additional days) book your return flight for Friday, April 17, after 12:30 PM. Consider purchasing travel insurance.
Yes! While there are no refunds, your payment can absolutely be applied to a future retreat or another program offered by Dr. Paula C. Perez. We want you to receive the full value of your investment. (We also recommend securing travel insurance to protect your plans—see below for details.)
Yes. There will be two days when you will have an opportunity to see the sites. It will include a trip to the beach, and some of the popular sites and stores in the area.
You should fly into Cyril E. King Airport in St. Thomas by 5 PM on Saturday, April 11, 2026. It ends after 12:30 PM on Friday, April 17.
Yes. once payment is made in full, room assignments are done on a first-come, first-served basis. Preference is given to coaching clients. (Membership has its benefits.)
Prior to the retreat in St. Thomas, we will hold a call on Zoom. The times are based on New York (EST) time.
Yes. It is recommended to safe guard your trip; however, it is your choice. You may contact Kindria for your travel and insurance needs that include your lodging in St. Thomas. Check with your travel agent. Click to see a sample proposal.
Yes. We will arrange pickup and drop-off at the airport in addition to transportation to our excursions. Let us know your travel arrangements so we can coordinate transportation. Note: There are taxis, but NO UBER or LYFT on the island.
Yes. Although every effort was made to find a location that is on one floor, because of St. Thomas U.S. Virgin Island's mountainous terrain, every venue has steps. Unfortunately, if you have mobility issues, this site will pose a challenge for you.
Yes. Please note, this is a smoke-free, alcohol-free retreat.
Yes. Here's the tentative schedule. It will be adjusted to meet the needs of the actual attendees as we get closer to the event. NOTE: There will be a Sister Circle every evening.
Day 1: Travel / Arrive by 5 PM / Dinner
Day 2: "You Don't Know My Story" / "Made Up Mind / 1-on-1 Sessions
Day 3: "Daughter of Zion" / "Dream Big"
Day 4: "Dream Big" / "Make Room to Receive Him" / Travel after 12:30 PM
ENHANCED VIP
Day 5: EXCURSION / "Hope Chest of Tools"
Day 6: "Enjoy the Ride" / 1-1 Sessions / Excursion "Dress for Destiny- All White"
Day 7: "Great Expectations" / Wrap-Up / Travel after 12:30 PM
Temperatures range from 80 to 90 degrees. There is a private pool at the villa. Note, it usually rains everyday, but for very brief moments (3-5 minutes).
Remember to Pack:
- sun dresses
- shorts and tops
- umbrella
- comfortable shoes
- bathing suit
- all white outfit for "Dressed for Destiny" Evening of Elegance Event
- suntan lotion
-phone
- wrap or sweater for A.C.
Yes. The villa comes equipped with a private pool. In addition, we will visit one of the beaches. Swim at your own risk.
Yes. The villa comes equipped with a private pool. In addition, we will visit one of the beaches. Swim at your own risk.
Yes. You may cancel, but there are NO REFUNDS. Registrants may use the funds to purchase another program within 60-days of the date. Use the funds to pay for other services, or apply the money to attend a future retreat.
Yes. You may view the contract here. You'll sign the contract after payment.
Yes. Email us at: info@DrPaulaCPerez.com
Reviews
Confident Now
“I now feel confident in being friendly with men in a healthy and respectful way. I have been attending more social events and having a good time interacting with men without a lot of mental pressure. Dr. Paula … knows how to get beneath the surface to help identify blocks. My investment was worth it.”
Christina – 6/18/2025
Insightful
“Truly insightful and has a wonderful ability to connect with her attendees. She knows how to guide women of faith in finding their purpose and potential in love, and her work will undoubtedly help someone else find the path to their future marriage.”
Stephanie – 6/22/2025
Transformative
“Brilliantly crafted – packed with practical, actionable content yet delivered with genuine heart and care… Dr. Paula’s ROADMAP framework, lays out the essential steps for preparing oneself for a healthy relationship and the crucial foundation of individual readiness.”
Elayna – 6/10/2025
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